An arrow flies like a bullet out of a big rifle.
arrow - never used by itself (see below!)
|朱||vermilion||PENIS ON THE BOTTOM|
|失||miss out on||HEAD but NO PENIS|
Vermillion has a dick between its legs (think of the bright red veins in a dick). Arrow and Miss don't have anything down there.
HOW TO TELL ARROW AND MISS APART: "失" has a little line sticking up at the top, which we'll call a HEAD. 矢has no head.
So you can say, "I MISS getting HEAD from your uncle ever since he got BEHEADED BY AN ARROW."